Your wedding day is one of the biggest moments of your life — and for two grooms, suiting up is more than just ticking a box on the to-do list. It’s about celebrating your individuality and your togetherness. It’s a style statement, a shared secret, and a reflection of who you are as partners.
At Mr. Fierze, we know there’s no one-size-fits-all formula when it comes to Groom & Groom weddings — so here’s our ultimate guide to getting it right, from first fitting to final flourish.
1. The Power of Two: Embrace Your Individuality
One of the best things about being two grooms? There’s no rigid “bride and groom” rulebook telling you how you should look.
For some couples, identical suits feel meaningful — a show of unity. For others, it’s about complementing each other, not copying each other. And for many, it’s all about contrast: bringing your personal styles together in a way that makes you both feel seen.
Think about:
- Personality: Who’s classic, who’s bold? Or are you both timeless? Or both rule-breakers?
- Comfort: Does one of you love a structured tux while the other prefers a relaxed linen suit?
- Vibe: What story do you want your outfits to tell about your relationship?
This is your starting point — build from here.
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2. Match, Mix, or Clash: How to Coordinate Without Looking Like Twins
When styling two grooms, the art is in balance. It’s about standing side by side in looks that connect — without looking like you’re wearing a uniform.
Here’s how to do it:
- Same Colour Family, Different Hues: Both wear blue, but one in midnight navy, the other in a lighter French blue.
- Same Formality, Different Fabrics: Both black tie, but one wears classic wool, the other velvet or jacquard.
- Same Cut, Different Details: Double-breasted for both, but with different lapels, shirt styles, or pocket squares.
If you do want to match head-to-toe, elevate it with subtle variations: custom linings, monogrammed cufflinks, or contrasting buttonhole threads.
3. Choose Your Signature: Make It Personal
A Groom & Groom wedding is the perfect excuse to add small details that mean something only to you. This is where your suits become more than just an outfit — they become part of your story.
Some ideas we love:
- Hidden Embroidery: Stitch your wedding date, initials, or even a private message inside your jacket lining.
- Matching Accessories: A pair of cufflinks you gift each other on the day, matching boutonnières, or complementary pocket squares.
- Statement Linings: Custom linings can reflect heritage, hobbies, or even a shared inside joke.
Details like these make your suits feel like heirlooms — long after the last dance.
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4. Think About Your Setting
Your suits should feel right for you — but also for the setting you’re getting married in. Is it a black-tie city venue, a relaxed coastal ceremony, or a garden party vibe?
Examples:
- Classic Ballroom: Tuxedos, crisp dress shirts, polished shoes — maybe swap the black jacket for an ivory dinner jacket to stand out.
- Beach or Destination Wedding: Lighter fabrics like linen or cotton blends, softer colours like tan or light grey, open collars or rolled sleeves.
- Urban Loft or Modern Venue: Experiment with statement blazers, double-breasted cuts, patterned jackets, or deep jewel tones.
Your venue can be a great guide when choosing colours, cuts, and formality.
5. One Suit or Two? Why Not Both?
Many modern couples love the idea of an outfit change. It’s practical (dance floor, anyone?) and makes your day feel even more special.
A classic move:
- Ceremony: Go timeless — formal tuxedo, crisp white shirt, polished shoes.
- Reception: Switch to a velvet dinner jacket, open collar shirt, or more relaxed tailored trousers.
It’s a fun way to show another side of your style as the night evolves — and keeps you comfortable too.
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6. Plan Fittings Properly: Make It an Occasion
This part shouldn’t be stressful — it should be part of the celebration. At Mr. Fierze, we often find our couples make a day of it: come in together, have a glass of bubbles, chat through ideas, and try on options until you find the looks.
Some couples love the reveal on the day — if that’s you, book separate fittings and let us handle the logistics. We’ll keep your secret safe.
Remember: the earlier you book, the more choice you have — especially for custom Made-to-Measure or popular seasonal hire pieces.
7. Don’t Be Afraid to Break Rules
The beauty of modern weddings is that tradition is yours to interpret. Want to wear trainers with your suit? Go for it. Want to match your jacket to your partner’s tie? Brilliant. Want to wear bold colour, floral embroidery, or something inspired by your culture? Do it.
There’s no “right” way — only your way. The best-dressed couples are the ones who feel comfortable and confident in what they’re wearing.
The Final Word: It’s Your Story, Wear It Well
Your wedding suits should make you feel sharp, confident, and completely yourselves. Whether you choose to hire designer looks from our carefully curated collection or invest in custom Made-to-Measure pieces, we’re here to make sure every detail fits — and that you both look and feel extraordinary.
Ready to start planning your Groom & Groom wedding looks? Book your fitting today and let’s make your suits as unforgettable as your vows.